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In the Name of Allah
I express my greeting to you, the youngsters, seeking the right. I hope that you are well.
This is a website on the basis of which principles of pure Islam are presented.
I can answer your questions regarding Islam religion and Shiite sect. Islam religion means Shiite. Good Luck
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پرسش:
1- درمورد ازدواج آيا اين درست است كه ازدواج قسمت انسان است يا كسيكه تصميم براي ازدواج دارد وكسي راانتخاب مي كند خودسرنوشت خودرا رقم مي زند ؟
2- درواقع آيا انسانها خود درمورد ازدواج درسرنوشت خود دخيل هستند يا خير؟
پاسخ:
با سلام و ادب
مسلماً انسانها درسرنوشت خود دخيل هستند ، به علت داشتن عقل ، اراده واختيار. پس براي تعيين سرنوشت خود بايد ازعقل استفاده كرد .
درمورد ازدواج نيز بايد ازعقل خود درصورت لزوم از مشورت باافراد آگاه ومتخصص نيز استفاده كرد . براي يك ازدواج موفق احتياج است كه بافاكتورهاي مهم ازدواج آشنا شويد :
1- سن 2- تحصيلات 3- فرهنگ 4- مذهب 5- اقتصادي 6- وضعيت اجتماعي
درمورد سن بهترين وضعيت فاصله بين 3 تا 5 سال است كه يك معيار صددرصد نيست ولي ترجيح است .
درمورد ديگر بايد هم پسر ودختر يك رديف يا يك سطح باشند وتفاوت واختلاف درهركدام از فاكتورهاي بالا موجب مشكل واختلال درزندگي زناشويي خواهد شد .
سه فاكتور ديگر كه مهم هستند : 1- بلوغ رواني وفكري 2- بلوغ عاطفي 3- بلوغ جنسي نيز بسيار مهم هستند يعني فرديكه هنوز وابسته به پدرومادر خود است كه آنها براي او تصميم بگيرنداين چنين فردي نمي تواند مردي براي زندگي باشد يازني كه تمام اراده اش به حرفهاي ديگران است وبراي زندگي خود نمي تواند تصميم بگيرد وبشدت تحت تأثير ديگران است بلوغ فكري نرسيده اند .
درمورد دوم بلوغ عاطفي فرد بايد بتواند احساسات خود رابصورت سالم بيان كند وابراز بدارد وهمچنين در مسائل مثلاً سوگواري احساس ناراحت بودن خودرا بيان كند نه اينكه لحظه اي ناراحت ولحظه ديگر خوشحال باشد يعني خلقي داشته باشد كه ثابت نباشد. بلكه انسان سالم كسي است كه بتواند داراي عواطف ثابت وسالم باشد .
ومورد سوم نيز خود بايد توانايي ارتباط جنسي سالم راداشته وآگاهي كامل از ارتباط جنسي راداشته باشد% ا
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